although distance is a problem to a relationshop.. but, sometimes.. short distance do make a couple become more lovely n appreciate each other.. appreciate their every moment because they know.. instead of spending time in arguement..is better to create more sweet memories to each other.. distance.. is a funny things.. it depends how u gonna handle it..
"tan bai" is a must in a relationship.. not because lack of self-confidence or not trust ur lover.. it is a commitment between each other.. even to our friends.. we should "tan bai" too.. although sometimes we need to tell white lies.. but " when u r telling 1 lie..u need to tell another lies to cover d 1st wan.."
if a couple keep on lying each other..den..wats d point ya?
to anonymous thx for ur sharing =) yup,i agree short distance good for couples.. but long distance relationship not my cup of tea.. am i too lack of security?maybe.. btw,may i know who r u?
yuan, u r right..i think nobody like long distance relationship..it is really a big challenge for couples...but i always think.. if a long distance couple can go through all d hard time.. their love ll be strong enough that can last forever n i bliv they ll appreciate each other..so much..so much...hahahaha~
=eStHeR sAm= hope u don mind a stranger kepo here~
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我要如何给他安全感？
足够的关心，照顾，有困难就在他身边支持他？？
我做得够吗？？
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你自己也是，别老是灰心。
丹米相信，你会找到你要的人。
距离真の那么重要吗？
如果每天朝暮相对，感情出错了。永远都是有个刺顶着心坎，永远都有个缺口啊。
觉得...两人有最真の心，彼此没有所谓任何の隐瞒就很好了啊。我依然深深还爱着他。
可能...想法不同吧。
你讲的是无形的距离吧！
我想只有坦白才能给你安全感....
爱并不是把对方绑在一起
而是把相爱的两颗心靠在一起
yicookies。。。
我很认同你最后的那句。。
“爱并不是把对方绑在一起
而是把相爱的两颗心靠在一起”
但距离其实也玩着满重要的角色，
无论你多坦白
无论你多了解对方
距离可能会改变一切
甚至，搞得你偏体鳞伤
对，只有坦白才能给我安全感
这反映出我对他的信任不够？
还是我自己的自信不够？
唉~所以说我不喜欢爱上一个人
很怕那种矛盾的感觉
距离是不是爱情的障碍，各有意见。自己选择自己觉得舒服的方式就好啦。不喜欢嘛就不要爱咯。
在这个爱情国度里是没有理智的，一开始理性分析双方的深度，高矮，距离时；一变成细水长流的感情或一潭死水。
失去安全感...这一遍我没意见..haha
although distance is a problem to a relationshop..
but,
sometimes..
short distance do make a couple become more lovely n appreciate each other.. appreciate their every moment because they know.. instead of spending time in arguement..is better to create more sweet memories to each other..
distance.. is a funny things..
it depends how u gonna handle it..
"tan bai" is a must in a relationship..
not because lack of self-confidence or not trust ur lover..
it is a commitment between each other.. even to our friends.. we should "tan bai" too.. although sometimes we need to tell white lies.. but " when u r telling 1 lie..u need to tell another lies to cover d 1st wan.."
if a couple keep on lying each other..den..wats d point ya?
to maike
好，自己觉得舒服的方式就好
to charles
但一段感情如果距离太远
就会生疏，会淡
不是吗？
to anonymous
thx for ur sharing =)
yup,i agree short distance good for couples..
but long distance relationship not my cup of tea..
am i too lack of security?maybe..
btw,may i know who r u?
yuan,
u r right..i think nobody like long distance relationship..it is really a big challenge for couples...but i always think.. if a long distance couple can go through all d hard time.. their love ll be strong enough that can last forever n i bliv they ll appreciate each other..so much..so much...hahahaha~
=eStHeR sAm=
hope u don mind a stranger kepo here~
既然如此，就有本人来做一个总结吧。
地理上的距离
身理上的距离
心灵上的距离
每个人都会有不一样的感觉
有人会觉得这样的或那样的
比较重要
因为我们的要求
何所需要的安全感不一样
唯一大家都认同的是
距离
在时间的长期折磨下
总会在感情线上
造成一定的曲折或断续
后来的结果
也只能看双方如何解决。。。
戀愛就是要有一點點的甜蜜，
一點點的擔心，和不安，
才可愛啊
過於乏味或刺激的
都不好吧
关于泰戈尔‘世界上最遥远的距离’
我確實很喜歡這一句話
謝謝你的留言
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有空多來造訪指教吧
http://mypaper.pchome.com.tw/news/nicholes30
距离，是心灵上的
可以身体靠的很近，却觉得遥远
可以相隔千里，却如近尺
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